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Lessons from my 16-year-old

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This happened this morning at my house:

I’m outside washing my car when my daughter returns from a trip to the store. “C’mon, grab a sponge, we’ll wash your’s too,” I said.

“Nah, it’s not that dirty, and I have things to do” was her response.

I said, “Yes, it’s dirty. It will only take a few minutes.”

She said, “I don’t feel like it right now,” as she started walking in the house.

I said, “Ok, I’ll do it for you.”

After a long pause, my 16-year-old grabbed a sponge and started washing her car, along with me. We then both dried it. Then she thanked me.

Later on she changed and went to the local hospital where she works as a volunteer with the elderly.

It reminded me that, especially with family, we don’t always need to be “teaching them a lesson” or some other lofty parenting cliche’ about taking responsibility for their things. Sometimes we just have to show our willingness to do things for them, for no reason whatsoever, that makes them turn into good people who are willing to do things for others.

It’s OK to let them get away with stuff every now and then, if you raised them to appreciate it.



  1. Bill Cadiz says:

    You know, all that tough-guy crap turns out to be a sham. You’re actually a decent guy. Have a great Father’s Day and hug your beautiful ladies for us. Emily sounds like she’s growing into a beautiful, caring, thoughtful and smart young lady, thanks to her wise parents (well, maybe a tilt towards Margarida). Bill and Mary.

  2. jerryzezas says:

    Hey, stop messing with my street cred! Same to you and your’s bud.

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